bring it back (after babies)
The group program that brings back your love, connection and intimacy after kids!
Don't put this off until the kids have moved out of home and your relationship is on the rocks. Step up and reclaim your relationship NOW.
If you have lost yourself in becoming parents and are ready to find yourselves again, this is the container for you.
Craving a more solid, easeful and juicier relationship, where you understand each other, are interdependent and have more fun? We want this for you too!
So say YES to yourselves, yes to taking action and yes to a better way of being. This six week group intensive will support you to create the relationship you have been dreaming about...What are you waiting for? NEXT ROUND STARTS 1ST FEB 2021!
our program is for you if...
* You're frantically searching for the magic ingredient to revive your relationship after having kids
* You want to break free from how you think married life should be
* You're looking for what comes next after the boxes have been ticked
* You have put your connection on hold and now it's gone
* You have become like flatmates instead of lovers
* You are willing to do the work and craving change
* You have given yourself away to your relationship, your partner and your kids and feel empty
* You're unsatisfied with the way your relationship is now.
it doesn't have to be this way & it's not too late.
You can come back to love.
You can have an exciting future together.
You can have a deep connection with your partner again.
And in doing so, you can reclaim yourself and your independence and become a better parent in the process.
this is your right & you deserve it.
We have helped many busy couples just like you, whose neglected relationships shadow all other parts of their lives.
This may be the "norm", but it doesn't have to be your story.
You'll learn how to navigate reactions, both yours and your partners which is pivotal in moving forward with ease and love. Then, you'll practice communicating your wants and needs safely, which will have you feeling fulfilled and heard at last!
come back to connection
You'll learn about love languages and how to put these into practice to fully understand your partner. Experience simple connection activities to bring you back in together and practice the love bubble for building confidence in your relationship.
We'll address your biggest intimacy struggles and show you how to take the pressure off, yet still satisfy your needs. You'll learn non-sexual intimacy practices, how to have intimate conversations and how self discovery plays a huge role in bringing this back into your relationship for good.
this is how you'll move through your six weeks with us...
We're Luke and Cindra & we're on a mission.
We have both come from divorces previously (Luke has kids too) and we know how easy it is to put your relationship on the back burner.
We see SO many couples struggling needlessly, because they believe they have to. They believe they don't deserve to be happy in their relationships and that they have to suffer.
we want to support you & show you a new way.
We have both tried the traditional couples counselling route but didn't get what we needed. Instead, we worked our butts off to learn to accept and love again (starting with ourselves).Trying to fix your relationship when you're in the shit can be near impossible.
Especially when you are sacrificing yourself and your connection for your kids.
simply trying to "work on it" isn't going to work and we're guessing you have probably tried that already.
What DOES work though, is support, direction and accountability.
Our one-on-one clients have made MASSIVE progress in our three month container, Relationship Rescue.
They report feeling more confident, more empowered and more ready than ever to love themselves (and their partners if they have one).
Enrolling in this group program will allow you to do the work with confidence and start you on the relationship trajectory that you have been dreaming about!
You deserve to have the relationship you desire, without the stress and struggle.
What this transformative group experience includes...
Group sessions online via Zoom. These will be run in the evenings, at 8pm Australian Eastern Standard time (so you can have the kids in bed) for 60-90 minutes. These are our interactive deep dive sessions, where you can air your struggles in a safe and supportive environment and leave with clarity and confidence!
PLUS SIX -
Sixty minute teaching sessions online, run in the private FB group created for your group. You don't have to be live for these, but your interaction will go a long way!
AND THE FB GROUP -
For interaction, connection and any questions you have along the way. There will be relationship tasks for you to report in on, so you have accountability here too.
For clarification and guidance between sessions, just tag us in a post in our private FB group and we'll get back to you or PM for something more personal.
Our second round kicks off February 1st 2021, so register your interest via the link below, we have a limit to the amount of couples we can have join us!
I learned how to speak my mind with confidence, stick to decisions I make and how to change my thinking to be more positive and be successful. I feel I am more confident now and can understand life from different aspects. I learnt so much about me and even things I didn't even realise about myself. Luke provided me with the right tools ad guidance to grow and find myself again.
Tegan M - NSW, Australia
Working with Luke was a dream. His calm demeanour and genuine friendliness made it so easy to open up to him and to go deep. His ability to help me see different perspectives and shine light on my strengths was inspiring.
This is not magic though. It’s a commitment. To yourself. It’s making yourself a priority above all of your “busy-ness” and doing the ACTUAL work. But believe me, it’s worth it . You’re worth it and your future self will thank you for years to come.
Lauren Devine - NSW, Australia
Thank you so much for your lovely, caring energy, Cindra. I feel more optimistic in life just speaking with you. That's huge.
You meet me where I am, you provide very achievable, easy-to-do yet very poignant solutions. You come from a place of experience, and you are so warm and welcoming. Much needed during times like these. So approachable and affable. Caring, and kind.
It's very comforting. Just that soft reassurance, backed up with concrete and helpful, deeply kind solutions, how fantastic. Thank you so much!!
J.M - Bay Area, CA
this program is definitely for you, if:
* You're in a long term relationship that's going nowhere
* You haven't had sex this month (or this year, you can't remember) and the whole concept has become a ticking time bomb
* You need to do something NOW or your relationship will be stuck like this forever
* You're excuses for not showing up fully to your relationship sound something like, "i'm just tired" and "we've been together for so long"
* You say things like "once the kids are grown up" things will be different, but you know they won't change
* You're sick of being asked to give more (and can't even imagine how you could do this)
* You love your partner, but can't express your needs for fear of conflict
* You use your kids as a distraction from your relationship issues (band-aid approach)
* You are ready to come back to love and appreciation for yourself and your partner
* You are committed to doing the work, both personally and together
* You understand that doing this program isn't a magic wand, that you have to show up and be present and you may get uncomfortable! The positives far outweigh the discomfort you may feel and you are okay with that, because if nothing changes, nothing changes
* You are ready to experience a whole new positive way of being, which will transfer into every area of your life
AND last, but certainly not least...
* You're feeling a mix of excitement, nervousness and shame about even considering joining a group relationship program, which shows you HOW much you need this...
Things aren't great. Your relationship is important to you and you want to make it work.
Trust us when we say, things aren't going to get better on their own. You have to take the first step in making this right.
Book a free enrolment call with us to find out more about our Bring It Back After Babies Program in 2021. Click HERE to find a time to chat with us, obligation free.
Enrolments for the second round of this program will open officially in January 2021.
In your call with us, we'll make sure you're a good fit for this program (and vice versa). You can also ask us any questions about the program on this short video call. This is a compulsory step to coming onboard with us, because we wanna meet you first and hear your story!
who bibab is not for...
* Single humans - if this is you, contact us and we can point you in the right direction.
* People not willing to get uncomfortable (growth doesn't come easy)
* Couples who actually don't want to come back to love and connection (you might be better suited to our Relationship Rescue program)
* Couples who aren't prepared to do the activities we prescribe
* People who aren't committed to positive change
* You, if you don't think you are part of the problem (we know it can be hard to accept, but a relationship takes two energies)
- Couple who are not prepared to open their minds a little and be challenged (we'll support you through it, but you gotta show up).
YES we do work with:
* Couples of all types/genders (or non-binary) and sexualities. Humans are humans and we love them all. Cindra was married to a cis-female prior to meeting Luke.
* One person out of the relationship, if their partner is unwilling to take part. We can still work some magic for you without your bae - Please contact us directly for our individual options.
bring it back with us in feb 2021
STEP ONE - email us to register your interest at email@example.com
STEP TWO - we'll contact you when enrolments officially open in January,
Get on the road to a better relationship ASAP!
Your investment is AUD $1,497
Three payments of AUD $549