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intimacy is 

It affects everything you do.


Most people don’t prioritise it. 


It ends up being disconnected. Boring. Repetitive. And avoided.


It doesn’t have to be this way.


Ready to LIGHT your intimacy

all the way up?

Let’s go!

how we help...

We’re serious About Sex


No, we’re not joking, although we do like to make intimacy fun!


We want to help you spice up your bedroom, and we don’t just mean by buying some sexy underwear or sex toys (although we do have a few recommendations there). 


Intimacy is not optional. It’s not something that you need to be ashamed of, or avoid. It’s time to bring intimacy into the light.


We know that having a legit intimate life means everything is better. Being connected to yourself (and your partner) sexually means work is better. All of your relationships are better. Your finances are better. Your health is better. Your parenting is better too, if you have kids. 


How we know? Because we practice it. We have seen the impact of having disconnected intimacy on our previous relationships and worked really hard to flip the script in our relationship.


We offer Intimacy Coaching for women in relationships (through our group program Awaken Your Pleasure) and for couples (through our 1-1 program TURN ON), as well as a tonne of free content. Including our weekly podcast, The Relationships Show.


Our coaching is no BS. We have both been through divorces and mental health challenges, so we KNOW that finding your feet takes work. And you can't do it alone. 


We use a lethal combo of NLP and TimeLine Therapy, traditional talk therapy, embodied movement, meditation, visualisation, yoga and self care practices, as well as our lived experiences to help you reinvent yourself, and your relationships. 


If you're ALL in, then let's get to work!

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meet the team

cindra banks
identify as she/her, queer

Coach, podcaster, writer and lover of life!

Cindra thrives on giving people permission to be their full authentic selves and tap into the power of their pleasure. She is a qualified yoga teacher, holistic health coach, NLP and TimeLine Therapy practitioner as well as an Embodied Dance Facilitator. 

Aside from couples coaching, podcasting and running women's group programs with Luke, Cindra offers one-on-one embodiment coaching, conscious women's circles, events and retreats. She is an experienced speaker, having spoken at a number of high profile events in 2021. Follow on Insta @cindrabanks for more on her!

luke skewes
identify as he/him, queer

Coach, podcaster, speaker and human lover!

Luke is driven to help people navigate life challenges and come out stronger and more connected to themselves. He is a qualified NLP (currently studying Masters) and TimeLine Therapy practitioner, with experience in addiction recovery and men's mental health support.

Aside from couples coaching, podcasting and running women's group programs with Cindra, Luke offers one-on-one men's coaching and a weekly men's group in Newcastle.

He is an experienced speaker, having spoken at five Enlightenment in The Bedroom events in 2021 alone. Follow on Insta @lukeskewes for more on him!

what we offer

Transformational Intimacy Coaching, in both epic group settings and intensive individual settings and live events in and around our hometown in NSW, Australia. 


You can also listen to our free weekly podcast The Relationships Show here and access tonnes of relationship inspired content on our Insta here.


If you’re keen to dive in deeper but not quite ready for coaching, come play on Patreon HERE!


We offer two main coaching programs:


1. Awaken Your Pleasure 


The group program for women to re-connect with their intimacy and be empowered to bring this to their relationship! This six week group online intensive will support you to create the intimate relationship you have been dreaming about...What are you waiting for?


We have helped many busy women just like you, whose neglected intimate lives shadow all other parts of their lives. This may be the "norm", but it doesn't have to be your story.


Awaken Your Pleasure is run three times per year, in real time, with real women and real results.


Head HERE if you want in on the next round!





Our one-to-one, three month couples program to transform your intimacy forever! This program is individualised to exactly where and how you need help to ignite your intimacy, both separately and together as a couple.


The transformation in this container is something to be reckoned with. It will positively change the way you relate intimately, both with yourself and your partner, giving your tools, knowledge and lessons for life.


Turn On is open for enrolments via application only, we accept couples that are ready to make some big shifts on a monthly basis. Head HERE and book a call with us to apply.


join our saucy
'The Hot Shit'

Join us for exclusive weekly intimacy content and secret podcast episodes, online pleasure workshops, tutorials and a glimpse into the Conscious Couples behind the scenes!


" Luke helped me uncover my “shit” and provided tools to help shift it.  We laughed a lot, I cried a little and worked hard to put these new learnings and skills into practice.  As a result, I truly feel more confident in myself and ability to cope with life's curveballs, I have a sense of clarity about who I am and who I’m growing into, my relationship is in this delicious, loved-fuelled flow-state and I've healed some of the old relationship wounds."

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